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Will You Have Another?

pregnancy after a preemie

For the most part, I have been blessed with good health. The few times I contracted a cold or infection, I went to the doctor and got a prescription and a day later I would start feeling better. In my limited experience, doctors could fix things. And until my pregnancy complications, I believed they could [...]

Losing a Child: The Love and Heartache

Mimi's window for Zoe

One of my greatest struggles as a mother who has lost a child is how to honor my daughter’s memory in a way that seems good enough  The problem is, no matter what I do, no matter what I think of, it never seems grand enough or poignant enough to properly show the depth of [...]

Post Preemie Pregnancy

Katrina Moline at 35 weeks pregnant after a 24 week preemie.

Over the last couple of years people have asked me time and again if we’d have another. As an only child myself, I’d always promised my unborn child that they would have a sibling. But after everything we’d been though with Bryce, and continue to struggle with, I couldn’t bring myself to commit to that as-of-yet unkept promise. But as serendipity would have it, the decision was made for us and here I sit almost 36 weeks pregnant with Bryce’s little brother. [Read more]

Jenny’s Story

Ava

This story was thoughtfully submitted by one of our readers. The week after my husband and I were married, we decided we wanted children and I was overjoyed.  We had my son 11 months after we were married and besides having preeclampsia, I was called a “constant contractor”.  I went up to the hospital many [...]

Denise’s Story

Williambirth

William Christopher Rhys Storm Birth story…by Denise Perry 3-27-10, 9:11PM, Cincinnati Ohio It had been a challenge since even before day one. Infertility. A less than 1% chance of ever having a baby of our own. Fast forward two and a half years and…pregnant…naturally. What followed was about one week of true bliss. Then, a [...]

Katrina’s Story

Jermaine

This story was submitted by Katrina, one of our readers. High Risk Pregnancy Throughout my pregnancy I had been deemed high risk as I had a previous preemie baby due to prom at 32 weeks, and successful treatment for cervical cancer prior to this also. During the first few weeks of pregnancy I suffered terrible [...]

Brigette’s Story

Carter

This story was submitted by Brigette, one of our readers. This was my second pregnancy; my daughter who is 9 was easy.  No complications at all and she was even a week late!  My son, Carter, was opposite in every way. I was due October 18th, 2010, a few days after our 1 year wedding [...]

Brianna’s Story

1 zowie

This story was submitted by one of our readers. My name is Brianna. I was 24 years old when I got pregnant with my first baby. I had a normal healthy pregnancy and she was born July 12, 2004 and was 7lbs 4oz at 38 weeks. When she turned 3 we decided to start trying [...]

Shawnte’s Story

Katelyn

This story was kindly submitted by Shawnte, one of our readers. In August of 2010 my Hubby and I found out we were expecting after trying for a year after I miscarried. We were of course excited and couldn’t wait for the first time we would hear the heartbeat. Our first ultrasound at 9 weeks [...]

Preterm Labor: Trust Your Instincts

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Yesterday I was talking with a friend of mine about her pregnancy, and we got on the topic of mine, and how my doctor missed my Preterm Labor (PTL) symptoms.  Had she caught them, I may have stayed pregnant longer than 24 weeks. I’ll give her this:  I had a subchorionic bleed my first trimester, [...]