Comments on: The Loss of a “Normal” Delivery http://www.preemiebabies101.com/the-loss-of-a-normal-delivery/ All about preemie babies and parenting! Wed, 08 Sep 2010 15:20:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: heather fludd http://www.preemiebabies101.com/the-loss-of-a-normal-delivery/comment-page-1/#comment-901 heather fludd Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:23:11 +0000 http://www.preemiebabies101.com/?p=456#comment-901 your words and stories are so encouraging to me. I was diagnosed preeclampsic a few days ago at 30 weeks and some days. on bed rest right now. We had planned on giving birth in water naturally with my mom and hubbby there are a local birth center. Now we are looking at probably delivering a preemie soon probably c section... definately nothing I have dreamed about for as long as I can remember. I have felt guilty for my inner pain about the loss of my experience... my birth. although i know what is most important... I would be lieing if I told you that I don't feel a little cheated. But today and tomorrow.... and until my miles is in my arms, I will seek to develop another strategy... another plan and try to make this experience ours. I will rejoice in the lord and I will celebrate each milestone with my family. your words and stories are so encouraging to me. I was diagnosed preeclampsic a few days ago at 30 weeks and some days. on bed rest right now. We had planned on giving birth in water naturally with my mom and hubbby there are a local birth center. Now we are looking at probably delivering a preemie soon probably c section… definately nothing I have dreamed about for as long as I can remember. I have felt guilty for my inner pain about the loss of my experience… my birth. although i know what is most important… I would be lieing if I told you that I don’t feel a little cheated. But today and tomorrow…. and until my miles is in my arms, I will seek to develop another strategy… another plan and try to make this experience ours. I will rejoice in the lord and I will celebrate each milestone with my family.

]]> By: Nola http://www.preemiebabies101.com/the-loss-of-a-normal-delivery/comment-page-1/#comment-520 Nola Thu, 20 Aug 2009 01:26:14 +0000 http://www.preemiebabies101.com/?p=456#comment-520 I feel the exact same way..I question everyday what I did wrong and why I wasn't able to have the same blissful experience that everyone else does. What was so flawed about me? I hope that in time I can learn to cope but for now it is a minute to minute, hour to hour struggle. I feel the exact same way..I question everyday what I did wrong and why I wasn’t able to have the same blissful experience that everyone else does. What was so flawed about me? I hope that in time I can learn to cope but for now it is a minute to minute, hour to hour struggle.

]]> By: Kris http://www.preemiebabies101.com/the-loss-of-a-normal-delivery/comment-page-1/#comment-498 Kris Tue, 18 Aug 2009 15:48:05 +0000 http://www.preemiebabies101.com/?p=456#comment-498 I'd really like to hear more about how through "time and friendships you were able to accept your limitations and find peace." I think this is a hard thing for a number of women in your same situation. I for one would benefit from hearing what you have to say about it. :) Thanks for your posts. Your site is great. I’d really like to hear more about how through “time and friendships you were able to accept your limitations and find peace.” I think this is a hard thing for a number of women in your same situation. I for one would benefit from hearing what you have to say about it. :)

Thanks for your posts. Your site is great.

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